Hi. I’m Lilly – professional over-thinker, part-time realist, and full-time main character on this corner of the internet.

I started this blog mostly because I had too many thoughts and not enough people to trauma dump them on. Over time, it’s becoming something way more meaningful – a space to unpack things we all feel but rarely say out loud. Breakups, friendship fallouts, self-worth, growing pains, healing, unlearning…you name it, I’ve probably cried about it and then written a post on it. You’re welcome.

This isn’t some perfect, put-together lifestyle blog where I pretend to have it all figured out. I literally don’t. But I do believe in being honest, messy, and a little bit delusional if it means growing into the person you’re actually meant to be.

So whether you’re here to feel seen, get emotionally slapped in the best way, or just have a nosy scroll – I’m glad you found this page.

Stick around if you like words that hit, reflections that bite a little, and reminders that it’s okay to start over – even if it’s the 7th time this year.

— Lilly x

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